CONTENTS AT A GLANCE
Part 1: Say Yes to Amazing Sex .......................................................1
1 Sexuality Today ....................................................................3
Explore the quest for sexual pleasure, so that you can determine all that you
should be getting out of your sex life
2 Sexpectations: Understanding Your Sexual Beliefs ..................................17
Understand how your upbringing, background, and the myths you've heard about
sex may be blocking your way to finding complete sexual pleasure.
3 Sex with (or Without) Love ........................................................27
Does love affect sex? Do you want to have sex with or without love? Help yourself
answer these questions.
4 Sexual Compatibility ..............................................................37
You can find a lover who is right for you, if you know what to look for, and what
makes sex amazing for you.
5 Talking About and Initiating Sex ..................................................45
In order to have better sex, you need to talk about it, and learn how to initiate sex
when you want it, and say “no” when you don't.
Part 2: Secrets from Below the Belt .................................................55
6 Mirror, Mirror on the Wall ........................................................57
Learn how to get over thinking you are too fat, thin, short, tall, big-breasted, or
flat-chested. You can love your body.
7 His Private Parts .................................................................69
A man's sex organs are more than just a penis and testicles. Understand how the
male sex organs work.
8 Her Secret Garden .................................................................79
Uncover the mystery of the G-spot, along with understanding all of a woman's
beautiful sex organs.
9 It's a Turn-On: Your Sexual Response ..............................................93
From desire to orgasm, find out how your sexual response cycle works.
10 Master of Your Domain ...........................................................103
Masturbation is the most fun you can have by yourself. Enjoy playing with your
body!
Part 3: Fantastic Foreplay .........................................................117
11 The Seduction ...................................................................119
Sexier surroundings can help get you and your 2lover in the mood for sex.
12 Reach Out and Touch Someone .....................................................133
From massage to hand jobs, masturbating a woman, to mutual masturbation,
touch can add tons to your sex life.
13 Mouthing Off ....................................................................145
Oral sex can be part of foreplay, or it can be the main event. There are many oral
variations that can be fun.
Part 4: Positions and Playtime .....................................................163
14 Sexual Positions ................................................................165
You can have fun with a variety of sexual positions. See diagrams of how people
have sex in exotic sexual positions.
15 Pillow Talk .....................................................................181
What do you do when sex is “done”? Learn fun afterplay activities, besides falling
asleep.
16 Variety Is the Spice of Sex .....................................................189
How many exotic locations can you think of for having sex? You can make sex
more exciting by varying many physical aspects, from thrusting to time to setting.
Part 5: Sexual Adventures ..........................................................209
17 Imagine That! Your Sexual Fantasies .............................................211
Sexual fantasies can be fun, but are your sexual fantasies healthy? How do you
know if you should act them out?
18 Sexy Sights and Sounds ..........................................................225
More ways to spice up your sex life, alone or with a partner, with magazines,
videos, the phone, or on-line.
19 What Would Barbie Think? Fun with Sex Toys ......................................239
Have you wondered how to use vibrators and dildoes? Learn how they are used,
as well as some more exotic toys, too.
20 Swingers and Dominants and Men in Skirts, Oh My! ................................251
Sexual variation comes in all styles, from group sex to fetishes, S/M to
crossdressing. Learn about them all.
21 Tantric Sex: The Big Om .........................................................267
Spiritual sex can bring partners closer together. Do you think this might be for
you?
Part 6: Unique Sexual Issues .......................................................279
22 Happy to Be Gay .................................................................281
Sexual orientation is just one aspect of who you are. Understand and cope with
being gay, lesbian, or bisexual.
23 Sex and Pregnancy: What Are You Doing for the Next Nine Months? .................295
How to enjoy your sexuality during pregnancy and after the baby.
24 Experience Counts: Sex and Aging ................................................307
Your body changes as you age, but you can still keep your sex life exciting well
into your golden years.
Part 7: To Your Sexual Health ......................................................317
25 Get in Control: Birth Control ...................................................319
Understand which birth control choices are right for you.
26 Better Safer Than Sorry .........................................................335
Great sex also means healthy sex. Learn how to protect yourself from sexually
transmitted diseases.
27 Take a Good Look—These Exams Save Lives .........................................347
Breast self-exams, testicular self-exams, and exams that doctors perform can help
keep you in tip-top sexual health.
28 Overcoming Sexual Problems ......................................................357
How to get over the most common sexual problems. Learn what sex therapy is and
whether you might need it.
Appendices .........................................................................373
A Amazing Sex from A to Z ..........................................................373
Here you'll find a glossary of terms related to sex that were used in this book.
B Get in Touch with Your Sexuality .................................................385
This is a list of resources for more information and referrals regarding issues
that are discussed in this book.
Index ..............................................................................389
