Every women can and will ejaculate, unless they have their Skeen’s glands (G spot) removed by some surgery, they sure can do it. If you ever want to make a woman squirt, you must know that the understanding of the G spot is critical to succeed, because the G spot is responsible for the so called “squirting orgasm” or female ejaculation. First of all, the reason why women squirt is because the G spot, or in more scientific terms: the Skene’s glands, swell up during sexual arouse, they swell up with a liquid similar to a male’s prostatic fluid, when the woman reaches the orgasm she releases this liquid through the urethra, and trust me… it’s not pee, you can smell it or taste it if you want and if that is gross for you… you shouldn’t be reading this!
Warning: If the girl doesn’t trust you or you haven’t built enough comfort… she WILL NOT orgasm, let alone squirt. So you need to make sure she’s really into you before attempting this stuff.
You’re going to learn what squirting orgasms are, the different types of orgasms women can have and most importantly how to make a woman squirt her love juice all over the bed.
Female ejaculation with all its amazing (include healing!) powers and incredible sensations has been successfully kept away from both women and men.
You may guess how many useless counseling sessions were prescribed to women who experienced female ejaculation.
Instead of feeling proud and happy – women felt confused, ashamed, lonely, humiliated, and sexually abnormal.
So what is female ejaculation after all?
2 TYPES OF FLUIDS FROM THE VAGINA
First type is vaginal ejaculate, which is rather a fluid that lubricates the vagina walls and oozes during the sexual arousal.
So when a girl says, “You are making me so wet…” this is the clinical explanation for what is going on.
The second type of fluid is urethral ejaculate. (Be so kind and tolerate a bit of academic language here).
It is what we call female ejaculate and it is less common. It’s not because women are not capable. Simply said there is a lack of understanding of woman’s sexual health issues in this society.
Ejaculation fluid is coming out of urethral opening but it is not urine. Tests indicate that liquid contains PAP (prostatic acid phosphatase) which is also a major component of male semen.
It also has much higher levels of glucose than urine. The fluid is similar to the prostate fluid within male ejaculate. It just does not contain any sperm.
Two more components that are found in it, urea and creatinine are also found in urine. Here they are present in a lot lower concentrations.
WHERE IS FEMALE EJACULATION FLUID PRODUCED?
Fluid comes from the Paraurethral / Skenes glands. In fact, they are an analogue of male prostate. Just take a look at the picture.
The tissue surrounding the urethra is not shown on the picture and is normally called the “urethral sponge.”
The paraurethral glands are imbedded in this tissue.
Interesting fact: it is not necessarily for this liquid to shoot out with a great force as you may have seen in some adult movies. In some women it may seep out in very small quantities.
What you see in majority of those movies is urine. The actors simply drink lots of water beforehand. Enjoy watching those videos but keep in mind that this is a professional trick.
HOW IS FEMALE EJACULATION FLUID PRODUCED?
During sexual arousal the tissue surrounding the urethra becomes engorged with blood and the Paraurethral/Skenes glands produce and fill with prostatic fluid.
This becomes a highly sensitive spot… the G-SPOT… In fact, this process is very similar to the process of male arousal. Take a look at the picture below.
As a result the urethral sponge becomes “erected” and if you touch it feels firm. This is a kind of female hard-on. The only difference is that it all happens on the inside of a woman’s vagina.
The amount of liquid may vary greatly and may be increased by applying a special kind of massage to the inside walls of the vagina.
Special Tantric massage techniques are used to “wake up” the whole inside of a woman’s vagina. Nerve endings are becoming awake allowing a woman to experience levels of pleasure, which had been unknown to her before.
Those sensations will increase with each new squirting experience.
ARE ALL WOMEN CAPABLE OF HAVING A SQUIRTING ORGASM?
All women have the Paraurethral / Skenes glands so ALL women are capable of producing this liquid and can eventually achieve female ejaculation!
However G-spot is a place not so easy to find particularly when woman is not sexually aroused. In such state it simply seems non-existent. This is the reason why so many doctors cannot find G-spot during medical evaluations.
In achieving squirting orgasm (if you want to see her squirt) almost everything depends on a woman and her state of mind.
There are also some anatomical and psychological details, which are unique to each person. Trying to give your partner squirting orgasm without much experience or good professional guidance may in some cases inhibit her subconscious with feelings of inferiority and endanger her ability to have squirting orgasm in the future.
DIFFERENT TYPES OF ORGASMS A WOMAN CAN HAVE
Men can only have one type of orgasm (sucks I know) but women can actually have two…
Most common among women, direct stimulation of the clitoris and happens during masturbation. You can also give them a clitoral orgasm orally, if you know what you’re doing.
Quick tip: Did you know that women have as many nerve endings in their clitorus as men do in their penis? Crazy right? Now you get why it’s SO sensitive for women during foreplay and sex.
Also most women only really experience one clitoral orgasm, because the clit can become VERY sensitive and sometimes even sore.
Comes from the inside of the vagina from either the G-spot or the deep spot. This is the kind of female orgasm that can infuse their entire body, making them feel numb and shiver with excitement uncontrollably.
It’s also possible to have multiple vaginal orgasms, so you can (if done right) make her cum more than once… heck more than 3 or more times during sex, which will give her an overwhelming sensation… like a constant wave of pleasure all over her body.
Quick note: Did you know that only 20% of women have experienced a vaginal orgasm? That means over 80% of women haven’t experienced one and most likely don’t even know what the hell it is… madness!
…And a staggering 29% of women have NEVER had an orgasm!
HOW TO MAKE WOMEN SQUIRT… FOREPLAY TECHNIQUES FOR THE G-SPOT
Lube up first
To intensify the pleasure, you should use a water based lube when using finger based foreplay which is what you will be doing here to make her squirt.
A great natural lubricant is grape seed oil, which is also awesome for massaging as well as G-spot stimulation with the fingers.
Get your hands ready
Remember that the vagina is a very sensitive area for a woman, so you must look after your hands… cut your nails, moisturize and keep them clean so they are soft and smooth.
I’d even recommend getting a manicure. Yes I know it’s not manly, but it will make sure your hands are ready for her.
Locate the G-spot
The G spot is supposed to be like the female counterpart to the male prostate, serving no purpose other than pleasure (for girls). Also the fluid taste is affected by the foods she eats; similar to how the taste of the semen is affected by the foods you eat.
The G spot is located about 1 to 2 inches INSIDE and UP on the front wall of a woman’s vagina, well actually how deep inside… it depends on the woman but I would say it usually isn’t very deep. So well, the question is how to find it?
First, to know how the G spot feels; try to rub your palate with your tongue with moderate pressure. After a little while you’ll notice that this part of the skin starts wrinkling and it sort of feels like a ribbed texture. This is similar as how the G spot feels, it feels pretty soft inside the vagina walls but the G spot is like a little bumpy button with a different texture and it also feels harder than the skin around it, you’ll notice a significant change in the texture and size of it if you stimulate it.
So, a good way to find it, is to simply enter your woman’s vagina with one or two fingers (palms up) about 1 to 2 inches inside and UP towards her vagina wall, preferably have her lay down on the bed next to you, then start rubbing slowly and look for the G spot. Good indicators that you have found it can be:
- Feeling the ribbed texture thing
- Feeling something getting swell inside of her
- She makes an “OMG face” and moans
Reminder: Just in case, never enter a woman’s vagina if she’s not well aroused and lubricated or in other words… if she’s not wet enough, it can be painful for most women to be penetrated if they’re not lubricated. So, make sure she’s pretty aroused before you attempt to make her squirt, you can spend some time doing foreplay with her and maybe you can go down on her if you want, that should get the job done. Also, if she feels the need to pee, you’ll have to reassure her that is not pee is her ejaculate, at first it may be tough for her to let go, but after a while the bond of trust between your girl and you should grow up more and hopefully make her able to let go.
Technique 1: Stroking
Get warmed up with this technique.
Ok so the first the first technique is called “stroking”. To do this, take your index finger or middle finger… place it inside the vagina and go up, so you are touching the front wall.
Now with your finger inside and touching the G-spot, begin stroking backwards and forwards, with a “come here” motion as if you’re stroking it. Don’t be too gentle, you need to be firm. Keep stimulating it with a slow and steady rhythm, always ask your woman what she likes best.
Start with shorter slower strokes when you first enter, but build up momentum and speed up after a few minutes. Once she’s really getting into it, try two fingers and use the same stroking motion. After a while you should start feeling something is swelling up inside of her (her G spot) and it has swollen so much that is pushing your fingers out of her a little bit (or sometimes really pushing them out a lot) that means she’s ready to squirt.
Never use 2 fingers right away, always begin with 1.
Technique 2: Overdrive
Kick it into overdrive and make her go crazy!
Right then… this is where the magic happens. Now that you’ve been stimulating the G-spot and stroking it for 10 to 15 minutes. You should feel it ballooning inside and she should be groaning with pleasure.
This is the point where you want to take things into “overdrive”. For this you will need to be right beside her (like on your knees if you’re on the bed” and use both your middle finger and ring finger to penetrate the same spot.
Now you’ll need to keep going at it but faster and/or harder to make her cum. You must use 2 fingers, because you’ll have a better grip that way and you’ll be able to hit your girl faster, harder and with more control… you don’t want to hurt her, that’s why you need control so you can hit her G spot hard and fast and not punch her vagina! Your fingers should look like you’re throwing out the bull horn, like you throw out the bull horn at a rock concert, or like Spiderman when he is shooting web out of his hands.
Ok, so you enter her with 2 fingers, better with the middle and the ring finger, putting your index and your pinky on the sides (you can put your pinky on her butthole if she likes anal stimulation), now your girl positioning is CRITICAL to make this final step to make her squirt, in order to hit her G spot well, what you want to do is to make sure that your 2 fingers and her G spot are aligned so that they’re parallel to each other. And that’s because what you are going to do is a tapping motion with your finger pads going UP and DOWN hitting her G spot as fast as you can. A little trick that helped me a lot is to lift her legs up, this way you’ll find that in this position is much easier to feel her G spot simply because it will rest right on your fingers better, and also if you place your other hand over her pubic bone she’s going to feel more pleasure as the internal muscles of her Clit are going to be pressed towards the G spot.
Speed up some more and be a lot firmer as you’re speeding up…
…Speed up EVEN more… now some more…. and finally go as fast as you can until she climaxes (squirts) all over the bed.
Boom! You’re all done!
By now your hands… the bed and her vagina should be covered in her love juice. Don’t worry it’s not pee, like some guys think. It’s ejaculate fluid which comes out of the urethra, not the vagina.
The female ejaculation fluid comes from the skene’s gland and has a sweet taste to it (due to the glucose contents).
Things to remember
- Get some high quality lube – Water based lube is the best as it can be used with condoms also. You can still make a woman orgasm without lube, but it’s not recommended.
- Spruce up your place – Make sure your apartment is presentable, clean and comfortable. If she’s not comfortable, then you’ll have a hard time making her squirt.
- Take your time – It’s not a race, most girls will take around 20 to 30 minutes before you can make them squirt. However if you see the girl more than once and she’s very comfortable sexually around you, it will be seconds to a few minutes.
So that’s how to make women squirt… even though they are the basics they still work wonders. If you want to get more advanced with orgasms I suggest you watch this video.
Squirting orgasms are seriously easy when you get the first one down, because you’re way more confident the next time.